Know it’s for the better: debunking the myth about boundaries and goodbyes
Growing up, I learned a lot about forgiveness. I watched my parents dedicate their time to others religiously (no pun intended :) ) while involved in church youth ministry. I read stories of people who loved the Lord and put their heart and soul into giving to others and serving them. I read the story of Jesus washing the disciples feet, even Judas whom he knew would betray him. I read other Bible stories that focused on forgiveness and reconciliation. To sum things up, the message I received was that the most loving thing to do for others is to always be forgiving and understanding. To love your neighbor as yourself which I took as put your neighbor before yourself. While those things are not bad in and of themselves, I didn’t learn until later in life the importance of self love. I don’t mean self love in a way where you take care of your body, health, wear things that make you feel confident that you like, and you are most...
